
Bring Education Home
by: Mary Ellen Fox
The structure of a typical student’s life in America today insists that they separate their core beliefs from their education. In school, children learn about historical events, mathematical equations, and poetical rhyme schemes. At home, they (hopefully) learn core truths about the purpose and reality of life, what it means to be a good person, and how to know truth. Discussion and integration of what is learned at school with all other aspects of life, such as church, community, or family is rare. Americans naturally transfer this compartmentalization to their entire life. Ask a typical American today how much he uses his education on a day to day basis and he will likely tell you to what degree he does or does not use it in his work. What he will likely not tell you is to what degree his education enriches his personal, spiritual, or familial life. As a result, Education has lost its influence over these important aspects of life.
What seems to be missing is an education for the entire person, which subsequently envelops their entire life. In this paper I will argue that when education becomes separated from one’s core beliefs, it no longer has the ability to be relevant to the most important aspects of one’s life. I will offer examples from the classics that recall how education can add wonder to our daily lives, enhance our friendships, support us in our courtships and most importantly strengthen and enrich our families. I will end by suggesting that the best way to reunite education with our core beliefs is to bring education home.
Interestingly, Americans have always had this tendency to compartmentalize. When Alexis de Tocqueville visited America in 1831 he immediately observed that American’s were “Cartesian” opposed to “Pascalian.” By this he meant that Americans were less likely to view daily actions directly motivated by deep convictions. Instead, their actions were motivated by the pragmatic, and that which would benefit them in this life. They had little interest in philosophy. Of Americans, Tocqueville wrote: “Men who live in ages of equality have a great deal of curiosity and little leisure; their life is so practical, so confused, so excited, so active, that but little remains to them for thought” (Tocqueville, 16) So, our focus on the pragmatic is not new, in fact it is very “American.”
However Tocqueville, still observed many instances in which education and core beliefs, together enriched the lives of Americans. This is where I believe Americans have changed. Because we have separated the teaching of virtue with the rest of education, we can no longer rely on education to bolster virtue, or vice versa. Thus, our education has become irrelevant in areas where it used to strengthen us. For example, Tocqueville wrote that it was the education of American women that made them more virtuous and wiser when choosing a spouse and more content in their roles as wives and mothers. He writes: “Although the Americans are a very religious people, they do not rely on religion alone to defend the virtue of woman: they seek to arm her reason also”(Tocqueville, 200). Similarly, Tocqueville notes that the study of core books in the home- namely the Bible and Shakespeare became “the charm of their leisure hours” and bolstered them from the tempting vice of materialism. Study was something that enriched all aspects of their lives.
In his book Crunchy Cons, Rod Dreher quotes E.F. Schumacher as saying: “Education cannot help us as long as it accords no place for metaphysics.” Dreher continues: “When Schumacher said that education is useless unless it teaches metaphysics, he was saying that it cannot be separated from teaching not only morals, but more deeply, the nature and purpose of reality… to provide children with a basic metaphysical framework to help them live meaningful lives with a sense of purpose” (Dreher, 213). Along with this framework, I believe, comes the understanding that metaphysics can only artificially be separated from other truths- logic, beauty, ethics and so forth. Truth is in fact, whole. As C.E. Sargent said: “One subject is dependent upon another so that we cannot thoroughly know a single book in all that great library without knowing all. The classification may be admirable, yet it is after all but the classification of dependent parts of a sublime and incomprehensible whole.” (Sargent, 128) Understanding this makes one’s life more whole. I believe this perspective is lost in an education system that segregates all subjects, and leaves metaphysics, epistemology, ethics and religion out all together. Such an education cannot be relevant beyond job- training and degree acquiring.
Many people disagree, however, that the greatest purpose of education is to discover a set of core truths. For example, Michael Bassis, president of Westminster College wrote in the Deseret News in 2004 that the point of education was that students must “learn how to learn.” “Knowing is important” Basis writes “but it cannot be an end in and of itself. What we know today will be outmoded tomorrow.” He goes on to say that: “While, of course, we want students to learn specific content, we want them to learn how to think critically and creatively, express themselves coherently, work collaboratively and develop a global consciousness” (Bassis). Bassis’ argument has merit, but can not be the final say. With technology and the internet rapidly changing the face of almost all industries- schools can not logistically keep up, and thus must prepare students to be flexible and quick themselves. However, while the skills listed by Bassis are very important to a great education, they cannot logistically be ends in themselves. What seems to be missing in Bassis’ argument is the library of knowledge that will never be outmoded. An education used to mean turning to great thinkers like Plato, Aristotle, and Christ to learn truths that had not become outmoded in thousands of years let alone the few years it takes for current freshman to graduate. Likewise, George Macaulay Trevelyan said: “Education has produced a vast population able to read but unable to distinguish what is worth reading” (Trevelyan, 582). If one sets out with the purpose to give himself the greatest education possible- he will ironically never reach his destination. For the greatest minds throughout history always sought truth.
What lies at the heart of the “learn how to learn” argument I believe, is a fundamental view that the most important purpose of education is preparation for a career. Numerous polls have recently shown that the highest percentages of Americans believe the primary focus of schools should be “preparing students for the workforce.” I echo Alan Bloom’s lament: “Fathers and mothers have lost the idea that the highest aspiration they might have for their children is for them to be wise- as priests, prophets or philosophers are wise. Specialized competence and success are all they can imagine.” (Bloom, 58) Likewise, consider the words of John Dewey: “Education” he said “is, not a preparation for life; education is life itself”. If this is true, then what is the reality reflected in the attitude that education’s highest aspiration should be job- training? Do Americans believe that their career is the most important aspect of their lives? Perhaps, but I do not believe this is the whole story. Instead, I think that Americans have lost the vision of how education can enrich all aspects of life. How can we regain this vision? As is often the case, we can look to the classics.
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Through the classics we regain the perspective of education as a never ending journey that enriches all aspects of life. In the classics we remember how education can enliven daily life, and friendships, why it is essential in choosing a spouse, and most importantly how it strengthens and enriches the family. When education is not disconnected from one’s core beliefs, there is no disconnection with the core of one’s life.
Edith Hamilton once said: “It has always seemed strange to me that in our endless discussions about education so little stress is laid on the pleasure of becoming an educated person, the enormous interest it adds to life. To be able to be caught up into the world of thought -- that is to be educated.” I wholeheartedly agree. Education adds wonder and beauty to our daily life. My favorite memory of college was the English Academic Society’s annual Christmas Yule Fest where Professor Scott Samuelson would read Truman Capote’s quirky but heartwarming story entitled “A Christmas Memory.” As Professor Samuelson’s deep voice read the story, the entire room became quietly immersed in a common experience of amusement and delight. Experiences like this are not limited to wonderful literature. A friend of mine who was a Biology major told me that learning about bugs was changing the way she saw the world. The intricacy and perfection of the small creatures enthralled her like nothing else could. Education makes seemingly common experiences magical. I believe many Americans have lost this perceptive.
Similarly, when education becomes a journey to find truth, it enhances friendship. For, in fact, to learn with another is one of the greatest joys of life. No friendships have grown deeper in my life than the ones wherewith I pondered the greatest truths of life. Such a journey begs for companions. This is well stated by Anne Elliot in Jane Austen’s Persuasion: “My idea of good company, Mr. Elliot, is the company of clever, well informed people, who have a great deal of conversation; that is what I call good company.’ ‘You are mistaken,’ said he gently ‘that is the best company” (Austen, 118). In C.S. Lewis’s book Surprised by Joy he describes the ecstasy of finding a first friend who shares his interest in books. He writes:
“I found Arthur sitting up in bed. On the table beside him lay a copy of Myths of the Norsemen. ‘Do you like that?’ said I. ‘‘Do you like that?’ said he. Next moment the book was in our hands, our heads were bent together, we were pointing, quoting, talking- soon almost shouting discovering in a torrent of questions that we liked not only the same thing, but the same parts in the same way; that both knew the stab of Joy and that, for both, the arrow was shot from the north” (Lewis, 131).
While his first friend was a joy, later friendships shaped his entire education. Lewis called his second friend his “alter ego” because he has read all of the same books as him, but completely disagrees with him on every point. Later in his life it is his close friends that help him realize the truth of Christianity. Friends with a common commitment to learning and the discovery of truth, in fact, shaped Lewis’s entire education.
Thus, it is perfectly logical that in many classics men and woman seek such a companion in their spouse. In Little Women Jo is impressed with the Professor’s articulate defense of right and wrong in the face of other intellectuals. In Pride and Prejudice Mr. Darcy agrees with the following description of accomplishment: “A woman must have a thorough knowledge of music, singing, drawing, dancing, and the modern languages to deserve the word…” “All this she must possess,” adds Darcy, “and to all this she must yet add something more substantial, in the improvement of her mind by extensive reading” (Austen, 28). In Sense and Sensibility, Marianne falls for Willoughby on the spot when she realizes they have similar tastes in Cowper, Scott and Pope. (Austen, 45). I do not believe education plays a similar role in our courtship today.
Some may say that this is just aristocratic snobbery, however, I disagree. In Charles Dicken’s classic David Copperfield, David learns too late the advantages of being in the company of “well- informed and intelligent people.” He marries his first wife Dora who is a sweet and beautiful, yet ignorant and childlike woman. After a while, David becomes “resolved to form Dora’s mind.” David says “I talked to her on the subjects which occupied my thoughts; and I read Shakespeare to her- and fatigued her to the last degree. I accustomed myself to giving her, as if it were quite casually, little scrapes of useful information, or sound opinion” (Dickens, 580- 581). David soon realizes his attempts to change Dora are futile and destructive and wisely halts them. However, I do not find his desire to have such a companion groundless. Dora’s ignorance does not bother David because he is a snob- eager to make his wife more “impressive” to others. Rather, he finds that their day- to- day associations lack the depth of intellect that he realizes may have been blissful in marriage. He realizes there is “no disparity in marriage like disunity of mind and purpose” (Dickens, 554). Later in the novel he enjoys such an association with his second wife Agnes, and finds it is truly bliss.
Which leads to the most important perspective that I believe we have lost, and that is the ability of education to strengthen and enrich the family. Alan Bloom noticed the lack of education in the American home and wrote:
“People sup together, play together, travel together, but they do not think together. Hardly any homes have any intellectual life whatsoever, let alone one that informs the vital interests of life. Educational TV marks the high tide for family intellectual life” (Bloom, 58). In disconnecting education from its core- we have also separated it from the home. We no longer turn to it to bring joy, unity and purpose into our family.
Yet through numerous classics we can gather a perspective of how education, family, and core values support each other. In Louisa May Alcott’s novel Little Women the March family constantly learns together. The result is a home that overflows with wisdom and joy that every reader longs to enter. The girls read Pilgrim’s Progress and pretend to be pilgrims journeying towards truth. They sing together every night. They create a pretend newspaper called the “Pickwick Papers” where they write poems and silly stories. They support each other in their ambitions: Aimee to be an artist, Jo to be a writer and Beth at the piano. Jo mentors Aimee in her lessons at home when all she is gaining from school is envy and silly vanity. The girl’s education intertwines itself with their character, transforming them into intelligent, virtuous women.
Such descriptions seem far removed from the modern family and modern education. Some may say they are impractical and idealistic- and they may be partially right. However, have we as Americans lost the very aspiration for such an educated home? Do we leave education at school, because we think it has nothing to offer us at home?
Similar scenes are displayed in Gene- Stratton Porter’s novel Laddie. In the Stanton family, education is an indelible component of the family culture. Mr. Pryor asks Mrs. Stanton: “The members of your family whom I have seen are fine, interesting men and women, educated above the average… I wish you would tell me just how you have gone about schooling your children.” Mrs. Stanton replies:
“By educating ourselves before their coming, and with them afterward. Self- control, study, work, joy of life, satisfaction with what we had, never ending strife to go higher, and do better… From the first tiny baby my husband has taught all of them to read, write, and cipher some, before they went to school at all. He is always watching, observing, studying: the earth, the stars, growing things; he never comes to a meal but he has seen something that he has or will study out for all of us. There never has been one day in our home on which we did not read a new interesting article from book or paper; work out a big problem, or discuss some phase of politics, religion or war. Sometimes there has been a little of all of it in one day, always reading, spelling and memory exercises at night…. He has been a schoolmaster, his home his schoolroom, his children, wife and helpers his pupils; the common things of life as he meets them every day, the books from which we learn” (Porter, 289- 290).
In this description there is no separation of life and education, and the results are remarkable. The home and family that an atmosphere of learning creates is one that I believe many Americans long for but don’t know how to produce. Education is missing from our homes, and we don’t know what we’ve lost.
In the examples of families given above we see how education and virtue bolstered each other, and how these together enriched family life. I want to share one last real- life example given by Alan Bloom on this relationship between core principles, education and the home:
My grandparents were ignorant people by our standards, and my grandfather held only lowly jobs. But their home was spiritually rich because all the things done in it… found their origin in the Bible’s commandments, and their explanation in the Bible’s stories and the commentaries on them, and had their imaginative counterparts in the deeds of the myriad of exemplary heroes. My grandparents found reasons for the existence of their family and the fulfillment of their duties in serious writings, and they interpreted their special sufferings with respect to a great and ennobling past. Their simple faith and practices linked them to great scholars and thinkers who dealt with the same material… There was a respect for real learning, because it had a felt connection with their lives. (Bloom, 60)
This is what I fear we are losing: a genuine feeling that learning and study, in all subjects, can add purpose and meaning to our homes and lives.
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So far I have made the case that the separation of education from core values has in turn separated our education from some of the most important aspects of our lives: most notably, the home. I have also given examples to remind us of the way education can enrich some of these most important aspects of life. I conclude with a suggestion to parents who feel this separation is harmful, and that is: bring education home.
The fact of the matter is that most schools today never integrate their curriculum with metaphysics, ethics, epistemology, and religion. For the lucky students who are learning these things at home the message is nevertheless clear that they are irrelevant to his education. Doesn’t it naturally follow that the student will similarly regard his education as irrelevant to what happens in the home? Only by bringing education home, back to the nucleus of one’s existence and core beliefs, can we help our children see education as a grand whole that will enrich their entire life.